What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch loaded with attention and presence, without a standard kind and established outcome. Tantra massage is given from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body gets involved and erogenous zones can likewise be touched. Obviously, constantly with respect for (mutual) boundaries. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage takes place on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection between massage provider and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and often even at the depths of body and soul. The purpose of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the instructions of) a natural, happy state of being. The effect is frequently a fantastic physical, mental wellness. Generally, the receiver is very relaxed, incredibly flowing and winding up well in the heart, and in greater spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Loving touch
A tantric massage is a loving touch loaded with attention and presence. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. Many touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is really like that touches. The hands of the giver are linked with his/her heart. The touch is caring, constantly concentrated on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is also present, and gets active as well as feels (ultimately) from the heart. Be caring!
Filled with attention and presence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch complete of attention and presence. Do not look around or being busy with something else, no, your full attention is on offering or getting the massage. Tantra massage is not about routine, fixed patterns are actually out of the question.
A tantric massage isn't really about a predetermined outcome
A tantric massage will always be various. You never know how it will end up. It is not the method or the desired series of rubbing that is crucial, it's about what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most require at the minute? Exactly what is excellent for her/him? Love knows exactly what to do, love constantly has a proper action. Therefore the massage will be exactly that exactly what is needed. Sufficient is that the provider exists and keeps tuning into his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine also has its own plan, you cannot "do" it.
Tantric massages for that reason typically take a very unexpected course. Whatever fits into a larger whole. For instance, a tantric massage does not constantly need to be "great", ending in bliss. A "stopped working" massage can be the very first step in a fantastic development.
The best ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limits
We knew it for a long time, of course, but since the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear limits ahead of time
Every person (other than when you are enlightened) has his limitations. This is human and is likewise required (check out the article on securing limits. So think ahead of time (both as giver and receiver) what your limits are. Make sure there is a proper consumption, and a good preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear boundaries beforehand: about psychological limits, and likewise take care for clearness about physical boundaries. It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage should always be naked, rubbish. With clothing on is also completely okay (though hard to work with oil then). It is likewise a misunderstanding that a tantric massage should be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have given/received many tantric massages just on the head. Also, in addition, in fact each cell is sensuous, however you will be impressed.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let flow easily
Triggering and freeing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erogenous zones can also be touched. Of course, always with regard for (shared) borders. When triggering life energy, sexual energy plays an essential role once again. In tantra massage we have fun with the activation of basic/ sexual/ psychological/ passionate/ love/ creation/ user-friendly energy.
Concentrated on the natural delighted state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life aimed at growing in love and awareness. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them.
Typically resulting in a wonderful physical, psychological wellness
Tantra assists you to end up being more unwinded, more vibrant, more energetic, more loving therefore far more. In fact, you "find out" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is also the case with a tantra massage. Since this is exactly what occurs typically: the recipient is enjoying it! Delighting in is fully allowed! A tantra massage is usually nice, often scrumptious. We, for that reason, invite you to completely enjoy getting ánd providing a tantric massage. Feel, use your senses. Hear, odor, taste, feel and show that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are numerous kinds of massage. Of course, all massages have certain practices and strategies in typical. There is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sensual massage (targeted at enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (focused on recovery).
Relaxation is a vital part of tantric massage, but of an entirely various order than relaxation massage Why? Well since you are truly very energetic during/after the massage. You do not fall asleep (unless you are very worn out), you are extremely alert and conscious! A tantra massage is NOT an erotic massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual fulfillment, we would call it different. Tantra massage is definitely not a treatment! It's a type of style nowadays to see tantra massage as a treatment, however therapy is a profession apart. Tantra massage certainly has recovery impacts, however that is not an end in itself.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For a detailed description, see the post on the essentials of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stand apart:
Tantra massage suggestions-- prior to you begin
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Supply excellent conditions (physically, however likewise mentally).
* Make clear arrangements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage tips-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is demand free, don't press or require anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* From time to time ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Enjoy!
* Use your senses.
* Offer feedback (satisfaction sounds?).
* Integrate in integration (rest) minutes.
Some masseurs are more/mainly concerned with what they themselves discover pleasant, enjoyable, preferable. Though a tantra massage is not a work task, so as a provider you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Forget your own "requirements", stay away from your own issues and above all ... do not attempt to require anything. Nothing needs to be done, nothing is needed! Once again, don't aim to enforce anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient requirements. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Rely on love. Perhaps you are disappointed when someone drops off to sleep. You may not be awaiting a psychological cry, however a tantric massage has no goal. No designated result. It is exactly what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage tips-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is however there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Regard borders, set clear borders ahead of time. Our masseuses are primarily extremely open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work however they are masseuses Tantric massage - not escorts.
* Keep the desires of the recipient in mind, obviously. Nevertheless, understand that it can end up differently.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being excited is typical and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely important! A lot can come up.
* Be alert to renewed freezing minutes. Prevent limitations from being crossed again.
* Action by step ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Beware: no sex! Practice makes ideal. Delighting in the renewed balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. enjoyment sounds) and offer combination minutes (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual complete satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not discharge, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we indicate do not rush to the weather ending, hold it, remain in the minute, let that sexual energy build and flood your whole body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it becomes peaceful in your head (often completely empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly flowing life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential healing result. Even though tantra massage is not the very same as healing, this release may recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more loving, you learn what it is like to like yourself. You experience that whatever, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which gives a splendidly liberating and deeply pleased feeling.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy means that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In other words, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Filled with attention and presence.
* The entire body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without basic form, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (mutual) borders.
* Develops a (heart) connection between the giver and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, happy state of being of the recipient.
* Generally resulting in a fantastic physical, psychological wellness (of both).